Life is all about building relations. Building relations might be easy...but building relations on a deeper level is definitely not. Some connections are formed on the basis of strong reasons and some get formed out of thin air, without any logic or reasoning. In my opinion, a true connection is the one which stirs emotions within you and allow your feelings to find a way to flow naturally.
Emotions play a very important role in the way you perform in your life. I do not think you can give your 100% to anybody or anything if you do not feel responsible, committed, attached, sincere and passionate. These emotions define a true connection. What's life if you are not devoted to people whom you love or not involved in activities which bring out the best in you? The most amazing part about a true connection is that you do not feel forced to be with somebody or pulled into something which you don't want to do.
Everybody's life is dynamic.....the only thing constant in life is change (by Heraclitus). Since your aims and priorities evolve along with your life, there is a possibility that some of your previous true connections might fade and you might start desiring new true connections....which is natural...but the important thing to realize is, to realize the importance of having at least one true connection in your life. It could be with anybody or anything....your life partner, your family, your friends, your profession, your books, a sport, a hobby....
The challenging part of finding true connections is that it is certainly not easy to find them. You cannot wake up one morning and decide that today is my deadline of finding a true connection. You need to do a lot of soul searching, look within yourself and have conversations with yourself to understand what will make you feel that positive sense of achievement, make you go that extra mile to make it perfect, who or what inspires you to give your 100%. It is completely worth it!! And of course remember not to be too hard on yourself if you can't think of anything, a lot of times true connections find a way to enter your life...just like that!
Emotions play a very important role in the way you perform in your life. I do not think you can give your 100% to anybody or anything if you do not feel responsible, committed, attached, sincere and passionate. These emotions define a true connection. What's life if you are not devoted to people whom you love or not involved in activities which bring out the best in you? The most amazing part about a true connection is that you do not feel forced to be with somebody or pulled into something which you don't want to do.
Everybody's life is dynamic.....the only thing constant in life is change (by Heraclitus). Since your aims and priorities evolve along with your life, there is a possibility that some of your previous true connections might fade and you might start desiring new true connections....which is natural...but the important thing to realize is, to realize the importance of having at least one true connection in your life. It could be with anybody or anything....your life partner, your family, your friends, your profession, your books, a sport, a hobby....
The challenging part of finding true connections is that it is certainly not easy to find them. You cannot wake up one morning and decide that today is my deadline of finding a true connection. You need to do a lot of soul searching, look within yourself and have conversations with yourself to understand what will make you feel that positive sense of achievement, make you go that extra mile to make it perfect, who or what inspires you to give your 100%. It is completely worth it!! And of course remember not to be too hard on yourself if you can't think of anything, a lot of times true connections find a way to enter your life...just like that!
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